My very first pet was a gray tabby cat that I found hiding underneath a car in the rain when I was about 5 years old. I took her home and named her "Meow". Why you ask? Because I wanted her to be able to say her own name. The logic made sense at the time, but now that I think of it, I sound like a nutbar. In any case, Meow was the best cat. We got along so well that I naturally assumed all cats were gracious, wonderful beings who were tolerant and kind to everyone. It took many failed pet cats over the years to gradually change my mind. I eventually came to the conclusion that cats are independent, selfish beings who only want what they want when they want it and will sometimes allow you to pet them. I remember saying to Evaristo, who by the way loves cats and is a huge cat person, "You know, we should totally get a cat just so that we could have a live-in source of entertainment".
When Kuma came to stay, my expectations were pretty low. I really didn't think that I could care for a cat as much as I could care for dog. I eventually decided that I shouldn't have any expectations of Kuma and that I should just enjoy her for what she is. As I did, I started to notice that cats communicate entirely differently then dogs—duh. Well, obviously, but notice that I didn't say cats communicate less than dogs; I just said differently. Once I started from scratch with Kuma, I couldn't believe how much she was communicating. Gestures or movements that wouldn't have caught my attention before were now speaking volumes.
Her kittens have taught me so much more. They are the sweetest things in the world and the cats that I always wanted. Once you figure out how a cat communicates, things gets really easy. You can even play games. Heck, you can even match a cat to a dog in a game and see who wins (put money on the dog, unless you feel the cat is really on his or her game). Evaristo and I did just that the other night when we matched Suki up to Rio in the Epic Kitchen String Game.
So, a little background on the Epic Kitchen String Game. To play you will require a long piece of sturdy string. If your boyfriend is obsessed with string and you often find him collecting random pieces of string which he then plays "knots" with for hours on end, then getting a hold of a sturdy piece of string should be pretty straightforward. You'll need to tie the string to a fixture on the ceiling so that it hangs down and is at nose level with your competitors. Tie a Turk's Head knot (re: boyfriend) on the end of the string. After your competitors have become intrigued by the string/knot combo, set them up and let them lose! First one to catch the knot gets a point. Play to 3. Go!
The Epic Kitchen String Game from Aguacate47 on Vimeo.




